Here are additional personality traits that women find most
attractive:
• Expertise.
If you’re an expert in an area that is interesting to your kind of woman, this
can be attractive. It needs to be presented from a “I know a lot about this,
let me show you” perspective and not a “I’m cool and you’re not” angle.
• Attention. Women
like attention. And interestingly enough, it’s better to hint at the attention
that you’re giving them than to be too overt about it. If you say, “I was
thinking about you earlier today, and I just wanted to mention that I really
like the sound of your voice...” it’s much more powerful than listening to them
complain about something so they think you’re paying attention. Get it?
• Disinterest,
Indifference, a Challenge. Most women are used to being pursued by men in one
way or another. If you are indifferent to a woman, make her think that you’re
only calling because you’re bored and act almost disinterested sexually,
they’ll often do their very best to get your attention. Different is good in
this case. Again, this drives most women crazy, and even though they’d hate to
admit it, it’s ultra interesting to them.
• Charm
(attention with a polished, smooth approach). This is hard to describe. Watch a
James Bond movie to get an idea. And watch ‘Dirty Rotten Scoundrels’. Pay
attention to Michael Caine’s character. Charm is powerful because it has a
certain ‘prince on a white horse’ aspect to it.
• Romantic
Imagination and Perspective. Watch the movie ‘Don Juan DeMarco’ and listen to
how Don Juan interprets the world. Instead of just looking at the surface of a
woman, he looks within her to find the beautiful part. A romantic imagination
sees opportunities for poetic comments, interesting stories, fascinating
history, and emotional interpretation in everything.
• Expert in
Body Language. This is important, as women are constantly sending signals. I’ll
talk more about this in a later chapter.
• Sexual
Mastery. Women love sex just as much as men do. But just like everything else
in life, a great lover is not easy to find. Women become instantly addicted to
skillful lovers who know how to make them feel ecstasy and teach them new ways
of feeling incredible.
Every woman is slightly different. There is no one magic
system to which every woman responds. If what you’re doing doesn’t work, don’t
throw out the system... try it on a different woman.
The most successful men I know will tell you that they are
only successful because they are able to accept ‘no’ and not take it
personally. Again, unsuccessful men take a ‘rejection’ as a personal assault on
their inner child. Don’t make this mistake.
So start right now. Take a moment and describe the type of
woman you’d like to attract and write down the qualities that you think will
attract her. Then go to work cultivating these qualities.
The idea is to create your own winning combination and then
find a place to use it that offers the best chances for success. You want to
come across as interesting, unique, original, and desirable.
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