Healthy self-esteem gets developed early in life. Parents
have a tremendous impact on a child’s self esteem. By nurturing, loving, and
making the child a part of the family, the parent builds the child’s confidence.
As a child grows older, he/she reaps many benefits from properly nurtured
self-esteem. An individual’s personal, family and social world is deeply
affected by how he/she feels about himself/herself. So what are some of the ways
that a child will benefit from developing this healthy confidence?
If a parent makes a child feel like an important part of the
family, that child will undoubtedly become a more responsible adult. Proper family
values instill within us trustworthiness and responsibility. We learn to be
more accepting of others if we ourselves feel accepted. We build stronger
relationships and co-worker bonds in the future and we are more enabled to deal
with society. It is also important for a parent to praise their child for a job
well done. By doing this, a parent is building a child’s confidence and letting
the child know that he/she has the ability to learn. That child will then go through
life confidently developing new skills.
So what happens when a child does not develop healthy self
esteem? Well, there can be numerous consequences. Low self esteem can cause a
person to feel like they don’t belong within any group, they can’t learn anything
new and they can’t accomplish anything in life. Worse of all, low confidence
can make a person feel like they have nothing to offer to the world. Those types
of feelings can be mild, but sometimes they can become dangerous. That is why
it is important to instill a healthy self-worth in a child at an early age.